This week marks the beginning of the end. Tomorrow is my last day of high school, I had my last dance performance this weekend, and I have only nine posts after this one till the “Something New 52” project ends. Things are generally coming to a close. This time in my life is the culmination of weeks, months, and years of work.
Dance
As one of my friends mentioned just before our final show, “for the past few years, dance has been the one consistent thing in my life.” And it’s true. Friends come and go, interests change, clothing and trends change, but dance has been consistent throughout my life. Pink tights and ballet slippers, black leotard, hair in a bun. As a three-year old I went to creative movement classes, and distinctly remember my father waiting for a hug at the end of class. In first grade, I started with basic tendus, plies, and center work. Ballet was my first love, and in fifth grade I began to do jazz so I could dance more, though I was devastated that I had to quit soccer because of it. But the dancing was well worth it. Two years later, I added pointe shoes to my standard outfit.
This weekend I opened up my closet and found my two pointe shoe bags, stuffed to the point of near-explosion. Opening the drawstring, I let my pointe shoes fall to the ground. Including the new pair I got for this week’s show, I have twelve pairs. Looking at the shoes sprawled on the floor, I delighted in the fact that my feet used to fit into size 3 shoes (about 5.5 in street shoes). Since then I’ve cut, burned, and stitched my ribbons in all manners; jet glued and shellacked my shoes; and switched from one brand to another. I found what works and what doesn’t, and despite my callused and blistered feet, I’m comfortable. I’ve toiled, sweated, and even fallen, and it’s bittersweet that despite my denial, the end is here. I won’t dance with this group of people again, and I’ll miss all of my friends terribly. But I know that as long as my body keeps working, I’ll keep dancing.
High School
Today was the penultimate day of school, and even though I’m on the final page of the final chapter, I don’t feel a sense of closure. I’m in the process of returning my textbooks, finishing my projects, and taking my last assessments. Everything is still running in full gear, so it doesn’t feel like an ending. The younger grades still have a few weeks of classes, which adds to the feeling that things are still in full swing. I’m not ready for goodbyes yet, but at the same time, I’m so ready to go. I’ve done what I’ve intended, accomplished what I needed and more, and realized the need to extend my horizons beyond the limits of my hometown, my current interests, and my current social circle.
This is just the beginning of the end. In the coming few weeks, there will be more winding-down activities– most notably, graduation– and more bittersweet tears and goodbyes. And of course, more reminders that the best is yet to come.
Firsts This Week:
- The realization that some firsts come in the form of lasts
- My last dance show, including senior goodbyes
- Last full week of school